There have been periods when I had nothing–no money, no home, no car, no job–and other times when I had what would be considered a whole lot. In both of these, I have had a sense of true peace and happiness at times and have felt miserable at other times. I feel exceedingly grateful that I’ve experienced both ends of this stick because I know it’s not where I am on the stick that brings happiness, whether it’s the “good” side or the “bad” side, but in rising above the stick altogether.
A long time ago, my mantra became: If you’re not happy where you’re at, you won’t be happy where you’re going. I continue to discover that happiness is not found in perfect circumstances but in seeing perfection in all circumstances. It’s rather like an enormous puzzle; if I were to look at just one piece of the puzzle or even a few, the puzzle won’t be clear or make sense. I have to rise really high above this vast puzzle, but when I do, I can see how each and every piece is perfectly placed and forms an ineffably beautiful picture.
How do you do this when grim circumstances seem to press in? The only way I have found is by learning to get quiet and look within. It takes practice, and it can take a lot of effort sometimes, but once you glimpse at the peace found there right in the midst of darkness, you’ll need no convincing that it’s worth the effort.
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I am grateful for every experience in my life, the good and bad. My mom always said what ever we go through in life will make you that much more stronger. And no matter what happens in life you have to keep going and it’s rough at times. The way I see it, your the captain of your ship through life, so if you’re not happy, do something about it and don’t ever let anyone tell you what you can and cannot do.
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I am grateful for every experience in my life, the good and bad. My mom always said what ever we go through in life will make you that much more stronger. And no matter what happens in life you have to keep going and it’s rough at times. The way I see it, your the captain of your ship through life, so if you’re not happy, do something about it and don’t ever let anyone tell you what you can and cannot do.
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A simple thank you is what I want to say.
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When my beloved partner took his life, I read that we can find a glimmer of positivity in every horrible circumstance. He had dementia…and although I would have seen him through this difficult journey, I no longer have to plan on dealing with that issue. Happiness is an illusion. Fleeting and unpredictable. Thank you.
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What if you don’t know ‘how’ to be happy? I know I experienced happiness the days my children were born. I know that I should be thankful for what I have in life, and I am; but I also have been depressed the majority of my life. I am so afraid to make friends or try to experience life. Fear dictates my life. It’s sad. I don’t know how to live. Your words are always so inspiring to me. Thank you.
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Jane, l feel like the Lord wanted me to see this. Thank you.With everything that l have been going through, l haven’t been trying as hard as l should to try to make the best of it.I have been worrying and l had lost a lot of my joy.The Lord has been helping me to see and also has given me a peace the last couple of days. I am so very thankful.🙏🏻
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Wonderful, inspiring and felt ❤.
It can be beautiful and heartwarming
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Thank you for sharing your experiences and wisdom with us! ♥️🙏🏽
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